Showing posts with label Military Families. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Military Families. Show all posts

Friday, May 14, 2021

Military Awareness Month: Army Officer Making a Global Impact from WNY

It’s quite possible that service runs through Joel Smith’s veins.

“My dad was the Disaster Chairman for the Red Cross in West Virginia. There was always a lot of flooding so literally as an 8-year-old kid, I had a Red Cross hardhat which I thought was the coolest thing. My dad would be coordinating these responses and I would always tag along with him.”

The West Virginia native would tag along on responses with his father well into his teenage years, something that helped to shape his philosophy on life as an adult.

“I was raised in a household where we were literally taught that we’re here to serve, not be served. And as a young kid, that’s really annoying,” Smith laughed. “But I found as an adult that if you can maintain an attitude of ‘I’m here to serve’ it improves your every day, because on the days where you’re feeling sorry for yourself, you stop when you take care of somebody else.” 


The family motto seems to have stuck with him. Now an Army Major with the 328th Combat and Operational Stress Control unit, Smith has dedicated his life to serving his country and community. As a Behavioral Health Officer, Smith provides support to members of the military, often embedding with combat arms units on the frontlines.

At one point providing support to 3,000 soldiers in what he described as a “hot spot,” Smith explained their needs range from discussing combat events to more personal matters like a breakup or even a family emergency.

“As a behavioral health officer, it was really common for a unit to get a Red Cross message for one of their soldiers. They would end up bringing that person to me, or I would go out to them. I saw that interaction frequently and it was never good.”

The American Red Cross Service to the Armed Forces (SAF) provides assistance to members of the military on active duty, connecting with the individual’s unit if there is an emergency at home and helping to coordinate transportation and financial assistance when needed.

In 2008, Smith and his family were on the receiving end of one of those calls.

“It was significant. My oldest son was in basic training and my father passed away. We needed to use the Red Cross to get that message to him and start the process. In a time of crisis, it was the best.”

That’s why Smith was excited for his “full-circle” moment with the American Red Cross of Western New York, explaining that he jumped at the chance to join the Service to the Armed Forces committee when asked just a few years later.

“One thing we do very well in the military is take care of each other. That’s our whole focus. We tell people you’ll never be alone, and I really think that’s what our Service to the Armed Forces committee embodies.”  


Even while on deployment, Smith makes sure to stay connected with the committee. While on location in remote areas overseas, Smith and the committee, helped to address the needs of multiple units, fulfilling a request for something as simple as quality work gloves for a maintenance unit and coffee for another.

“The SAF committee had a direct impact,” he explained. “I was really humbled. It’s just very rewarding that you can contribute at a local level and have a global impact.”

It’s an impact he regularly encourages others to make, particularly civilians who might not be aware of the Red Cross resources available to veterans and military families.

“The level of sacrifice when you’re in the military,” he explained. “It’s so noble in our own communities to take care of our veterans or family members of those who are serving, because they are the ones who really sacrifice.”

He concluded with that all too familiar motto he was raised on years ago.

“The more you give, the more you get back.”

The month of May is Military Appreciation Month, the American Red Cross is inviting people around the country to turn ‘Thank you for your service’ into action. For those with a military background or just a heart for military and veteran communities, you can learn more about ways to volunteer and support Service to the Armed Forces by visiting www.redcross.org/saf.

Tuesday, April 21, 2020

Virtual Workshops to Help Military and Veteran Communities Cope During COVID-19


The American Red Cross is launching a new virtual workshop for active military members, Guard, Reservists, veterans, and their families that addresses unique stressors felt by this community during the COVID-19 pandemic.  It is the first time the Red Cross will be utilizing a virtual platform for a Service to the Armed Forces (SAF) workshop. Michael Willis, a licensed mental health professional, is one of the facilitators for the virtual workshop. Dr. Willis notes sources of stress can vary from individual to individual, as well as the ways in which we each cope with stress.  He points out that, in addition to the uncertainty, stress and isolation associated with the COVID-19 pandemic, there is a lot of loss, and with that, a lot of grief. Dr. Willis notes the loss isn't just about the death of a loved one but can also include the loss of a job and connections to family, friends and co-workers, and it is important to know how to cope with the grief that accompanies it.  For military personnel and their families, these losses are compounded by additional stressors such as delayed reunions or altered deployment schedules.  In addition, veterans may have difficulty accessing community resources that provide medical and behavioral health services, training or social support, which can affect mental health during this time of sheltering-in-place.

Although the in-person and virtual workshops encourage attendee participation through discussion and sharing, such participation is voluntary.  People can also attend and only listen. All content shared by participants in the workshop is kept confidential. The 60-90-minute virtual workshop will cover topics such as the signs and symptoms of stress, effective communication to decrease stress, relaxation exercises, recommendations for better sleep, stress reduction techniques and establishing a relationship between what you think and how you feel. 

Dr. Michael Willis  
The SAF workshop facilitators, like Dr. Willis, are all licensed mental health professionals, and deeply committed to helping the Service members, veterans and their families.  Dr. Willis has been a SAF volunteer since 2014 and has led over 40 reconnection workshops of which 14 workshops focused specifically on stress management for the American Red Cross SAF division.    He also represented the Red Cross on an Honor Flight to Washington DC to provide mental health support to the participating veterans. When presenting the workshops, his favorite part is interacting with participants during the activity portions, and Dr. Willis believes the most beneficial aspect of the program is the "toolbox" of stress management techniques the participants take with them.

To learn more about the workshop, or to register, contact your local American Red Cross chapter, or contact them by visiting redcross.org and entering your zip code.


Story by: Karin Schneider, Communications Volunteer
American Red Cross, Western New York Region